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Lisa Richardson's avatar

it's so sweet, elise... i love it... such a sweet story. i loved how anxious you were on the end of that rope, i would have been too, "oh my god, his life is in my hands"... and how delighted you were at hoisting the pole... and how satisfying the egg payment/gift/appreciation was. i love your invocation of the word "neighbourliness." and ya, it's hard to ask for help. we're so programmed to go it alone... capitalism reinforces it, the heroes journey kind of does too (although I should study it better, maybe i'm wrong... the idea of a hero, anyway), and I've heard that it's also a trauma symptom... and as thomas hubl says, whatever our personal stories, we are living in a great net of unresolved traumas... this idea of neighbourliness and world building happening in tiny steps, small gestures, encounters, exchanges, just lovely. douglas rushkoff talks a bit about this, after being asked to consult with billionaires on the holes in their survival bunker plans... he's like, you're better off to ask your neighbour to borrow his drill than you are to build a bunker. you're allowing yourself to become indebted to your neighbour and that builds mutual relationships and interdependence... How celebratory that every time you hang the washing you will be reinforcing this web if interbeing/relatedness, with the tree, with bill, with the whole film crew. laundry day as celebration!

Ana Salote's avatar

The neighbourliness is delicious. These are the counters we need. Would love more time, more characters and stories - a series on Netflix. Your energy seems lighter on that side of the camera. Less to think about I guess.

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